Thursday, April 29, 2010

Killing + Yourself = Stupid

There is absolutely positively no reason why you should ever end your life. Suicide is definitely not justifiable...unless your a samurai, and even then, how many samurai are alive today?
There are many reasons why killing yourself is never right, and I'm going to start of by telling you that it is just down right selfish! How could you be so depressed or lost that you just end your life with no thought of others? I mean, even if you were killing yourself because you had no family, no intimate partner, or any friends, there are still people in this world that need someone. To just end your life without ever having others in mind is very selfish. If a person who wants to kill them self because they don't like their lives, then why not try to make someone elses life better? Why not go do something like go into Africa and help AIDS victims risking your life? Why not become a daring cop who saves people from maniacs trying to harm them? Is life so hard when you do nothing but help people? NO, it's not, and that is why it is selfish to end your life. If these suicide victims don't think this way, then they probably shouldn't be on this planet anyways. They only think about themselves, so they definitely don't have your back in anything.
Some say that attempting to kill yourself is a cry for help. Well, I'm gonna relate this with actually doing it. So, if you are so messed up and you were never taught to kick life's butt and not let it kick yours, then obviously you need help. Here's the relation between the two. These people need to get some help. Why do they keep quiet until they can't take life anymore? Well, probably because they are too scared of whatever situation they are in. This my friends, is utterly ridiculous to me. If you are thinking about killing yourself, which, has got to be pretty darn scary, then you should have some courage deep down inside to get some help. I know everyone get's sad from time to time, but there must be a line that people set for themselves, something parents should teach their kids. Suicide is such a chicken way out. Now, before I continue, I want to apologize for my severity and harshness on this subject. You see, I was a victim of being a friend to someone who almost killed them self. To this day, I hate him for it because it made me incredibly sad when he ran off to try it. After that night, I found utter hatred toward this subject, and complete stupidity in the minds of those who do it/try it. Do they really think that no one cares about them?! Or their situation is that bad to just leave EVERYTHING?! I believe everyone has some sort of destiny to fulfill, and NO a destiny is not death. Some people's journeys are obviously going to be harder than others, but that's what makes us all unique. We need each other. Without you and I, or any of our friends/people we come in contact with, there would be no need for a lot of things. Language, Love, Respect, Loyalty, Comfort, NOTHING. You would just be you. Knowing this, if someone is going to commit suicide they MUST understand that SOMEONE is out there waiting for them. Someone needs you, ALWAYS.

1 comment:

  1. I’m not even going to try to lie but when I read your blog I believe it was very harsh. However, as I was reading it I could tell that you were very passionate and I was wondering if there was a reason for that. Then when I got towards the end I found out there was because you have lost someone from suicide. First of all I am very sorry for your loss. I have never lost anyone let alone to suicide and I can not even imagine what you went through. You did make a good point in mentioning that if someone really did want to stop living to do something productive, such as being a daring cop in dangerous situations and saving the lives of others. However, when people are so depressed and sad the majority of the time they lack the motivation to fulfill such task in the first place. I can see where you are coming from in a lot of the points you made and in suicide not being justified. I myself do not believe there is never a good enough reason to kill yourself. I felt like you have not yet resolved the death of your friend and I am sure that is where your passion about the topic comes from. With never being in that position, I would be wrong to judge you and say that you are wrong in being mad and hating your friend. It is selfish and a very, very sad loss and I’m sorry for friends death.

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